THE ABUSIVE NARCISSIST ADOPTIVE PARENT

It's time to talk real talk about these abusive adopters, who stay in denial mode, only think about themselves, and utilize a helpless innocent child as a prop for their own gain and benefit.  It's so sad that these adopters are allowed to get away with victimizing helpless children as long as they are able to pass the following requirements: ​

>pass a home study  >have a clean criminal history  >have the money to pay for the child

Sadly, these people don't realize that they aren't special. These people who adopt children due to their desperation to fit in, coax their own ego's publicly are sad, sad people. Internally, they are not well. These people do not realize how transparent they are. They are sick inside. These narcissistic abusive adopters are forever little children who lack empathy, lack the ability to behave like normal persons do. I would pity these people for the internal dysfunction they suffer constantly, but when they bring a helpless, innocent child into their disgusting psychopathy, that's when there is a massive problem, and they need to be held accountable for their abusive behavior to another human being. These narcissistic abusive adopters are actually quite easy to spot if you pay attention and remember to never turn a blind eye to it.

LOOK OUT FOR THESE SIGNS IN THE ADOPTER ABUSER
Pay attention to their social media.  Do their social media posts include proper material regarding the child they have adopted?  Do they post on behalf of 'them adopting a child', or do they post about the child and the child's well being.  There is a HUGE differentce between the two.  If an adoptive abuser is posting things, where it seems like the child is second priority, pay closer attention to what else may be happening behind the scenes, as although it may seem like a small thing, it is actually a very large indicator that this adopter is self oriented, and the child is second or last priority, which in turn, means that the well being and care for the child is not put first like it should be. 

Pay attention to if they have a complete lack of empathy, pay attention to their self involvement, pay attention to noticing if these people act one way in private, and behave another way in the public eye.... does the adopter lack empathy behind the scenes and in private, but when in public they turn on and replicate what is the doting mother or father who is all empathetic all of a sudden?  HUGE red flag of abuse.  HUGE.  

REMEMBER TO ALWAYS PAY ATTENTION
The main message of this post is- PAY ATTENTION. When the dots are connected, this is when these people get found out and called out for who they truly are. These adopters are walking predators. Bringing awareness to these people's psychopathy is a great way to save many children that could suffer future psychological and emotional abuse by not allowing these desperate narcissists to adopt.