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10/31/2019

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Mother Victim of #adoption #fraud #scheme in #Michigan speaks up about #tara #lee #case
🧐🔎:: May we never forget. It's time to change the narrative all.... #Adoption #predator, Tara Lee of #Michigan, who is responsible for my Son Auggie and I's tragedy has been in the custody of the US Marshall since March 11th, 2019. She has been indicted with 23 felony charges for her fraudulent adoption crimes. Justice WILL be served, however my Son and I have been harmed in a way that can never be reversed. I have been absolutely traumatized by the damage all involved with working to profit & gain off of harming myself and my Son without my knowledge has caused. This will effect my Son and I for our lifetimes. 

USING ABUSE OF POWER, ABUSING THE LAW FOR ADOPTION 

Suzan 8 months pregnant with her Son.  Just 2 days later, she was preyed on by #adoption predator #tara #lee out of #Michigan
It is NEVER ok to separate families for profit, or because someone is infertile and wants a baby. It is NEVER okay to violate and abuse the law to perform predatory coercive adoption practices. In order for someone to 'get a baby', a real family is being destroyed in order for this to happen. Society needs to become more aware of what's happening to vulnerable pregnant Women who are in their most vulnerable states, being misinformed about the laws, and what will happen in their child's future.  Although with these predatory practices, the way the mother is purposely misinformed by the laws, and her unborn child has a price placed over their head without her knowledge, and people pay money to receive her child and they become separated, once the coercive predatory practices work, and they get the vulnerable woman's signature on paper without explanation to her, her baby is taken, and she is cut off.....  it's treated just like a transaction, however, these are human lives being harmed, and real human beings being traumatized.  Real families are being completely destroyed.  There is absolutely NO excuse for this.   Being infertile does not give anyone a ‘pass’ to destroy a family and rightful heritage to ‘get a baby’. Humans are not objects. This sort of practice blatantly goes against the child’s welfare and future. This is blatantly abusive and unhealthy. Adoption was created for children who ACTUALLY needed a home, not to provide babies to people who think their entitled to one.  If you know of someone who is infertile who wants to adopt a child, encourage them to GO GET EXTENSIVE THERAPY, not adopt a child. THIS is what the public should be focusing on. There are several studies of how the inadequacy issues of infertility causes mental illness. This is what needs to be focused on.

MEDIA ABUSE PROPAGANDA & GLORIFICATION OF ADOPTION

Mother Suzan Pleva and her son, victimized by #adoption #fraud


​Due to
#predatory #coercive #adoption #practices, and being surrounded and isolated by person's working to profit off of myself and my Son, my continually speaking the #truth about what's happened to me, I have dealt with constant harassment, victim shaming, stalking, blatant slander, character assassination, misrepresentation and exploitation in the media, being treated as the villain when I am indeed a victim who fights for justice, retaliation because I've continued to speak the truth and seek justice for my Son and I.  I have been blatantly misrepresented in the media, spoken about in the complete opposite way of who I am as a person, and what my efforts and work to gain justice have been. This is abusive, EXTREMELY oppressive, and wrong. I will NOT be silenced. I WILL continue on. For my Son, I will always continue on. For my Mother Jacqueline, I will always continue on. This abuse being masked in propaganda of the abuse being 'a good thing' MUST stop.  Coveting a Woman’s unborn child while still in her womb while she is pregnant is absolutely abusive. LYING to a vulnerable pregnant woman seeking aid while covering her child, misleading and misinforming her about her rights, and the laws is ABSOLUTELY predatory.  Trying to 'erase' a person who seeks justice for the harm and damage caused to them is not okay.  Trying to make a victim who has found the courage to step forward and speak the truth will not re-write history.  


I urge the public to become aware of the ACTUAL facts, laws, and realities of adoption. I urge the public to not just blindly think that it's a 'beautiful thing'.  Harming, unnecessarily separating, and damaging families, falsifying birth certificates, a person's identity is NOT a beautiful thing, it's a blatant human civil rights violation. Especially when the people being affected by it, being defrauded by it are LIED to about these facts.  I urge the public to recognize that real families are being separated via abuse, unnecessary fraudulent #adoption, left traumatized, suppressed, and marginalized by society, when they should be honored for the nightmare and damage that they have been caused by sheer predatory coercive adoption practices. I urge the public to realize that this is NOT beautiful. This is selfish, this is commodifying human beings, and blatantly violating their fundamental human civil rights in the worst way possible. This IS abuse. This is not something to be celebrated. This is a predatory practice that should be INVESTIGATED.  

PREDATORY COERCIVE ADOPTION PRACTICE IS FRAUD 

Let's pay attention to the #predatory #adoption #practices happening to vulnerable pregnant Mothers and their unborn child. It's NEVER okay, and ALWAYS abusive to #coerce, surround and pressure a Mother into #adoption while coveting her unborn child.  It is ALWAYS abusive and wrong to slander, harass, verbally & emotionally abuse and gaslight a Mother when she contacts authorities for aid, and finds the courage to speak up and fight for justice for her child, her child’s welfare and future.  Its is abusive to use a Mothers love for her child against her to try to silence her. If a child already has their family, a loving stable home and environment with everything they need, STAY AWAY from that Woman and her unborn child. The woman should ONLY and ALWAYS be supported, encouraged, and surrounded by healthy people working as a team WITH her, not against her, lying to her & manipulating her in her most vulnerable time to get her child from her while cash is exchanged for her child without her knowledge or consent.  I said it before and I’ll say it again, this is BLATANTLY predatory, abusive, and life threatening to purposely damage generations of legacy, family bonds, objectifying humans, and manipulating a vulnerable pregnant Woman whilst covering her unborn child under false pretences. Using a Woman’s vulnerable state against her, to make a profit off of her pain, profit off of her child, and gain off of the abuse is WRONG no matter what the excuse.  To reiterate, there is absolutely NO excuse for this predatory behavior. 

IT'S IMPORTANT  TO KNOW THE FACTS, LAWS, AND TRUTH

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As a person who was trapped and isolated in the abuse cycle of unecessary adoption for 3 decades, I've lived every aspect of the loss of my family.  I've lived every aspect of having my human civil rights being blatantly violated.  I've lived every aspect of the lies, gaslighting, and abuse at every turn.  I now realize that I was groomed to think that being treated this way was 'normal'.   I now know better.  I now realize I was surrounded by abusive unhealthy people.  I now stand tall and strong and fight for justice, I stand for my rightful family, not those who call themselves my 'family' through abuse of power and the law, but my real, natural rightful family.  I stand for my Mother and my Son.  I will no longer allow people who had no right, no business forcing themselves into, and violating/exploiting my Families right of privacy.

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH- THE ABUSE STOPS WITH ME

Get the word out about what's really happening here! If you know of a pregnant woman considering #adoption for her child, look closer into the matter, be sure to secure proper aid and support for the Woman and her unborn child.  Do not just blindly believe that a child needed a home, or that something is wrong with the child’s real rightful parents because you were verbally told so. The child’s life, welfare, and future depends on people actually looking into the facts and what’s really going on.  Find out the TRUTH and the FACTS first. A Mother's love and bond with her child cannot be covered up, hidden or erased, it only strengthens over time. The child WILL learn the truth no matter the lies they are told. The truth ALWAYS prevails.

As an #Adoptee who’s dealt with massive abuse and isolation, control at the hands of the people who adopted me, having that abuse used against me, I know that this cycle must end.  Being stalked and aggressively harassed by the adopters who abused me, and the people who fraudulently adopted my Son for staying ENOUGH is absolutely NOT okay. It is absolutely against the law, and I will exercise my freedom of rights as a citizen to restore proper order for my Family. I know that I will ALWAYS advocate for #Adopte #Rights.  As a person who has been objectified in this way, and as a person who’s had my fundamental human civil rights violated REPEATEDLY, I stand for all that is honest, rightful, and restorative in Family Preservation. 
Unhealthy abusive people have harmed my family long-enough.  It’s time to restore natural order, protect my Family, and END the abuse. 
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